For as long as I can remember, I've been passionate about redefining parenting. I love my parents dearly; they worked tirelessly and did their best for my siblings and me. However, my father adopted a very strict parenting style modeled after his own upbringing, and as children, we often felt fearful and hesitant to express our true selves. 

When I was in college, I finally asked my father why he was so strict. He explained that he genuinely believed he was doing the right thing, and when he realized the impact his approach had on me, he immediately apologized. I forgave him instantly.

I’ll admit that I got married and had children largely because it felt like the natural next step, without really questioning why I wanted to become a parent. In hindsight, I can see that I may have been trying to fill a void left by my own upbringing. Becoming a parent helped me understand just how immense the responsibility truly is. Raising a child offers the opportunity to contribute something positive to the world—but also the risk of causing harm if it’s done without reflection and care.

During my pregnancy, I immersed myself in parenting books, seeking wisdom from a wide range of experts. I hoped to share what I was learning with my husband, but he showed little interest in discussing parenting philosophies or exploring more progressive approaches. He preferred a more traditional, hands-off style of parenting that relied on discipline after problems arose.

I’ve come to realize that many people still hold onto these traditional beliefs—even when parenting children with significant challenges or disabilities. While I can understand where these beliefs come from, I strongly believe it’s time to break cycles of parenting that rely on fear rather than connection. Our generation—especially mothers—has a powerful opportunity to create healthier, more nurturing environments for our children. I’ve met many mothers who feel deeply called to do this work but aren’t sure where to begin.

That realization inspired me to create a new parenting framework called The Rocketship Parenting Model™. Just as a rocketship requires a strong foundation before it can safely lift off, I believe children are best guided after certain foundational needs are met.

I explain The Rocketship Parenting Model™ in more detail in my course, How to Be a Happier Mom in 15 Days, which is included in the Happier Mom App.