For as long as I can remember, I've been passionate about redefining parenting. I love my parents dearly; they worked tirelessly and did their best for my siblings and me. However, my father adopted his father's extremely strict authoritarian parenting style, which left us constantly fearful and afraid to express our true selves. My mother, too scared of my father, allowed him to dictate the dynamics of our household.

When I was in college, I finally asked my father why he was so strict. My father explained that he thought he was doing what was right and, upon realizing the impact of his strictness on me, immediately apologized. I forgave him instantly, of course.

I'll admit that I got married and had kids because it seemed like the natural thing to do, without ever questioning why I wanted to become a parent. In hindsight, I realize I may have had children to fill the void left by my own upbringing. Once I became a parent, I understood the immense responsibility involved. Raising a child presents the opportunity to contribute positively to the world, but also the risk of causing harm if not done thoughtfully.

During my pregnancy, I eagerly delved into several parenting books, seeking wisdom from various experts. I hoped to share this knowledge with my husband, but to my disappointment, he showed no interest in reading parenting books, discussing parenting concepts, or even sharing his thoughts on parenting. He made it clear that he preferred an old-school approach—leaving the children to their own devices and then resorting to harsh corporal punishment when they stepped out of line.

Many individuals, particularly men, still hold these traditional beliefs, even when it comes to children with disabilities. While I can empathize with their perspective, I strongly believe it's time to break the cycle of abusive parenting. Our generation, especially mothers, has the responsibility to end this harmful pattern and create a healthier, more nurturing environment for our children. I've met many mothers who are enthusiastic about making this change but are unsure where to start.

This inspired me to create a new parenting framework, The Rocketship Parenting Model. Just as a rocketship requires a strong foundation before building the other levels, I believe that children can be guided most effectively after establishing the first five foundational stages.

I will be providing a more detailed explanation of The Rocketship Parenting Model in my upcoming app course, "How to Be a Happier Mom in 15 Days."